You have to come to grips with the fact that the person you devote your life to, will hurt you like no other person has hurt you, and they will do it constantly, for the rest of your life. It isn’t because they necessarily want to, (in fact, they shouldn’t want to. If they do, reevaluate, reevaluate, reevaluate!) but it’s because their opinion weighs heaviest, and the slightest lash of tongue could turn your confidence to mush. And it goes both ways. Just like you will cause the most smiles, you will also cause the most tears. It’s practically a guarantee.
So if love is to endure, the two of you are going to have to develop very short memories. Be as forgiving and as forgetful as possible.
Dope advice for any relationship.